Friday, July 24, 2009
Explanation of Baby C's Absent Diastolic Flow
Absent diastolic flow in the umbilical cord is when blood moves forward only when the heart is contracting.
If Baby C gets bad enough, he may end up having this... Reverse diastolic flow in the cord. When the blood moves back toward the heart when the heart relaxes. (Found this info at http://www.tttsfoundation.org/questions_explained.php)
So, we want to keep praying that it is just absent and never gets to reverse. We also want to make it the next 2 1/2 weeks to 30 weeks! That is what we have our sights set on right now! I only pray that God keeps C and all the rest of us safe until (or past) then.
Thank you for the continuing thoughts and prayers.
Monday, July 6, 2009
What a Roller-coaster Ride!!
The babies did fairly well. They all looked very good at first. Fluid levels were good, and they were all moving and kicking (they don't like to be poked and prodded.)
There is a slight problem with Baby C. He isn't growing as well as the twins. A month ago they were A-11 oz, B-12 oz, and C-8 oz. Thursday they were A-1lb 5oz, B-1 lb 7oz, and C-14oz. C was in the 9th percentile of where he should be. A month ago he was only 2 weeks behind his brothers in growth, and now he is 3 weeks behind.
The doctor, Dr. F just gave it to me straight. They are not sure why he isn't growing as well. She said it could be a couple things. It could be a placenta issue, where he isn't getting enough oxygen or something. It could also be a possibility of Downs (though he doesn't show signs of it any other way, such as the bridge of the nose, etc). They gave me the option of doing the amnio, but said that it could put everyone at risk for really premature birth. Plus, my nurse practitioner said unless we were planning on doing something (abort if the test is positive) then the amnio most likely isn't worth the risk. There may be the option of delivering early, if they have to, but only if it doesn't put A and B at risk.
James called our other doctor, Dr. P, today and he sounded WAY more optimistic that the other Dr. F. He said that he would almost completely rule out Downs and placenta problems because baby C is growing symmetrically. (Usually something like the stomach would be way off compared to everything else if that was the case.)
He didn't rule out possibly a genetic problem though. We haven't been able to get a good picture of C's heart yet (its hidden behind my belly button, and gets shadowed out) so there could possibly be a heart problem, which could make him small. He also said it could possibly be a different genetic issue, but those would have to be found out after ruling out the heart issues, and only through an amnio. He said the risk of the amnio isn't too bad since we are so far along (we will be 26 weeks at the next appointment). If the amnio does find something then, it may change the way they are treating me and all the babies.
James also asked Dr. P if there was a possibility that C was just small and behind the others, and he said that is very very likely and probably what is going on, but they just have to make sure on everything else.
So, I am feeling better today and we will be rescheduling our next appointment with him instead of Dr. F. Dr. P is the one we were referred there to anyway.
We are still needing all the prayers/thoughts/whatever that you can muster for my little guys in there. It was a hard Thursday but I have to trust that God is in control and He has a plan. Today is a new day, and we are all still doing well, so we just need C to grow! GROW C, GROW!!! (We do have a couple of ultrasound pictures of the three and profile of C-he was being very photogenic-so I will post those once I get them scanned in.)
Other than that, we had a great July 4th weekend. My parents stopped in town on their way back from California. I wish I could have been able to go, but alas, 3 babies keep me close to home. We hung out with my aunt, uncle and cousins on Friday and just chilled most of the weekend. Mom cleaned our loft for us, and now we have a nice big space for the babies to have tummy time, instead of having to move everything out of the living room downstairs for that.
We went to the fireworks on the 4th and sat fairly close. Actually, so close we had ashes and debris from the fireworks falling on us. It was very very fun though. My dad has some pictures of it that I will try to get and post soon.
The boys just jumped and kicked the entire time in my belly. I don't know if they didn't like it, or were kicking and dancing in approval. I am guessing they kept getting startled. It was fun to feel though.
My parents headed home Sunday morning and James and I went to church. I have found out that my voice has dropped almost a full octave, and I can no longer sing soprano, much less alto. Every hymn/praise song we sang I had to sing an octave lower. C below middle C is NO PROBLEM for me to hit right now. I am singing tenor with the best of them... I HOPE MY VOICE COMES BACK. I think it is probably all from the testosterone that is running through me right now from these boys!! :)
They loved hearing our pastor preach though. They were all awake at the same time and kicking and punching through the entire sermon. It was fun to see. Hopefully this is a sign that they will like sitting in church and listening!! :)
Well, I will wrap this up for now. I'll post pictures soon. Thanks for all the thoughts and prayers.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
5 Questions
2. Four people who e-mail me regularly: Mom, James, Elizabeth, spammers
3. Four of my favorite places to eat: Taco Johns, Johnny Carino's, Hoong's Palace, Pizza Hut
4. Four places I would rather be right now: in bed, Gillette, Rock Rapids, Somewhere warm!!
5. Four TV shows I watch: Chuck, The Biggest Loser, Law & Order: SVU, Days of Our Lives
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
First actual website!!
Monday, November 17, 2008
A savings of about $130 bucks!!!!
Thursday, September 11, 2008
Robes or No Robes... What do you think?
When you walk into a church, do you pay attention to what the pastor and/or choir is wearing? Do you care if they are wearing robes or not? Is it important for you to have a church that has leaders wearing robes, or is that too much "pomp" for you?Friday, August 22, 2008
2 down... who knows how many more to go!
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
Found pet update...
Luckily I found him. I would have felt bad if I would have let him go for the coyotes to get. I wanted to keep him, but he and Jet did not get along very well. Jet wanted to play and the ferret just kept swatting at him with his claws and got his nose once. Taught Jet quickly that it didn't want to play!
Oh well. At least it should go to a good home now.
Monday, August 11, 2008
Found pet
It is a ferret. I figured that once Jet started bugging it, it would run off. Thought wrong! He stuck around then went into Jet's doghouse.
He then proceeded to burrow himself into Jet's blanket and stay there. I tried to get him run away but he would just walk right up to me. So I am pretty darn sure that he is a tame ferret and someone's pet. So for google's sake I am going to put this tag line in here in case someone is looking for their pet.
Ferret found in Green Valley Ranch, Denver, CO, on August 11, 2008. Denver Animal Control to picked up.
So anyway... Right now I am sitting on my front porch waiting for Animal Control to come pick up the ferret. It is sitting beside me in a cardboard box that he is trying to get out of (but not very hard cause he isn't making noise anymore.)
I had put a little thing of water in the box for him and he tipped it over. That is why it looks wet!!
So, thats my fun for today!!! Yippeee, huh?
Tuesday, August 5, 2008
Scooter pictures....
So I have to do a little bit of explaining. If you see, I have a white helmet and it has pink flames on it. Very non-traditional scooterish! Well, I have this theory. The more rediculus I look riding around Denver, the more chance that people will see me and not run over me!
For those of you wondering, I got the scooter online at http://www.scooterdepot.us/. It took me a month to get it cause they were backordered. Anyway, it is a 150cc scooter and I have gotten it up to 60 miles per hour. I am getting at least 80 miles to the gallon on gas and the last time I put gas in, it cost me $6. I don't have to fill up but maybe once a week. It is sooooo nice!
Yes, I do have to have a motorcycle license to drive it, and yes, it does have to have insurance and a license plate.
It is so fun. We are working on getting all the kinks worked out of it, but other than that I am extremely happy with this purchase.
BY the way, YES, I do drive it to work. I do not drive on the interstate (not legal) but I do drive it on Buckley and Arapahoe Rds. Just thought you all should know!
Wednesday, July 23, 2008
Nothing Else to Do...
**8 years ago**
1) How old were you? 17
2) Where did you go to school? Campbell County High School
3) Where did you work? Depending on the date, I may not have had a job, or I was working for my Mom's office in the Summer, or I may have just started working at the Rec Center.
4) Where did you live? Gillette
5) Where did you hang out?my house, Jami's house, Kristen's house, or Amy's house. Or school.
6) Did you wear contacts?yes
7) Who was your best friend?Jami and Kristen and Amy
8) How many tattoos did you have?0
9) How many piercings did you have? 2 (one in each ear)
10) Did you drive a car? it was either the 66 Mustang or the 92 Accord... not sure when I got the Accord
11) Had you been to a real party?yes, and I got in big trouble for it...
12) Had you had your heart broken? i think I thought I had, but now I realize that I hadn't
13) Were you Single/Taken/Married/Divorce? Single, off and on, I dated lots in highschool
14) Any Kids?no, only 17
****3 years ago...****
1) How old were you?22
2) Where did you go to school? University of Sioux Falls
3) Where did you work? I worked at Jacob's Ranch Coal Mine for the summers driving coal trucks
4) Where did you live? Sioux Falls in an apartment, Gillette with my parents, the in Fargo with James
5) Where did you hang out? the apartment in Sioux Falls, in Fargo with James, um.... I don't really remember
6) Did you wear glasses? only after I took out my contacts
7) Who was your best friend? James, Jami, Kristen, Amy
8) How many tattoos did you have?0
9) How many piercings did you have?2 (1 in each ear)
10) What car did you drive? Ford Taurus
11) Had your heart broken? nope
12) were you single/taken/married/ divorced? taken and engaged, then Married in June!! :)
13) Any Kids? I had just gotten married, so no...
***Today/2008***
1)how old are you?25
2) Where do you work? American Baptist Churches of the Rocky Mountains in Centennial, CO
3) Where do you live? Denver
4) Do you wear glasses? at night after I take out my contacts
5) Do you talk to your old friends? Jami, Kristen, Amy, and a few others on facebook
6) How many piercings do you have? none, my ears turned alergic to earrings, so I wear clipons now... Laugh all you want, I have found some really cute earrings you wouldn't even know were clipons
7) How many tattoos? 0
8) What kind of car do you have?2003 Ford Expedition and a new dark red 150cc Moped!! :)
9) Has your heart been broken? no
10) Have you been to real party? sure, lots, but I don't do drink till you pass out parties, I do the parties that we actually have fun and talk and have a few drinks and dinner and movies... and.. and.. :)
11) Are you Single/Taken/ Divorced/Married? Married to the love of my life
12) Any Children? not yet, but workin on it! :)
13) Are you happy with how your life has turned out?God has blessed my life in so many ways, I have a husband, a house, a dog, and a white (not picket, but close) fence.... all i need is the 2.5 kids and i will be set for life!! :) i am happy!
Tuesday, July 15, 2008
Where Should I Live
Top 24 recommendations:
Cincinnati, Ohio
St. Louis, Missouri
Bloomington, Indiana
Denver, Colorado (where I am now!!!)
Indianapolis, Indiana
Springfield, missourie
Knoxville, Tennessee
St. George, Utah
Norfolk, Virginia
Cleveland, Ohio
Minneapolis-St.Paul, Minnesota
Provo-Orem, Utah
Billings, Montana
Overland Park, Kansas
Nashville, Tennessee
Loveland, Colorado
Kansas City, Missouri
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
Topeka, Kansas
Columbus, Ohio
Ogden, Utah
Carlisle, Pennsylvania
Salt Lake City, Utah
Charlotte, North Carolina
See what places FindYourSpot.com recommends for you!http://www.FindYourSpot.com
Monday, June 9, 2008
Bob Smiley - Christian Commedian
http://www.godtube.com/view_video.php?viewkey=155e551b44d5255333d9
Monday, June 2, 2008
Babies and backyard...
It's been a while since I have posted anything of significance. Well, here is two things that have been exciting in my life lately, totally not related, but fun all the same.
First things first. I have lots of pictures of the babies. My nephews and neice were born on May 28th. You can go see all of the pictures of the babies, but here are a few.
David Andrew Nebelsick
Aria Louise Nebelsick
Levi Timothy Nebelsick
Aren't they cute!!!!! I can't wait to go back and see them. I will probably be going to see them at the end of June. Cross your fingers that we can afford it!
So, my second fun thing is we sodded our backyard. I love it! It is soooo nice. I laid out on a blanket yesterday in the middle of the yard soaking up the sun!
Then, I have created myself a clothesline in our backyard and I love it. Things come off of there very crisp and clean smelling. Oh, it's wonderful. Here are a couple of pictures of the backyard and the clothesline.
Tuesday, May 6, 2008
Inspirational quote
"In the midst of their deepest depression, people of faith have found that
their one consolation is this: that God is in charge, and regardless of what
afflicts us in this life, our ultimate destiny is in God’s hands."
Tuesday, April 29, 2008
Heaven vs. Hell via Oprah... I can't believe this...
This relates to my post below. It is a must see. I cannot support this idea, nor can I support Oprah anymore because of this.
Update on Heaven & Hell vs nothing??
Sunday James and I decided to attend Sunday School (well, I told James we were going to attend.) Anyway, they were continuing to talk about the book, If God is Love (I'm going to refer to it as IGL). So, the class started out fine. Somehow they veered off onto the topic of politics, but eventually came back. I just sat and listened to the conversation for the right time to chime in. I am not sure what sparked me to start speaking, but I rebutted someone by saying something along the lines of "how can every person go to heaven if there are no consequences to actions?" James then chimed in and we started to say that belief in Christ is the only way to Heaven.
Oh no, though, that was not good enough! THE BOOK (IGL... not the Bible mind you) says that Christ isn't the ONLY way! WHAT???!!!!???? (it gets better) In the book IGL the author points out that the Bible says that Christ contradicts Himself in Luke and John as to the way of Salvation! WHAT!!!????!??!??!? I asked them to read me the passage in the book again...
Luke 10:25-28 is what they quoted. "On one occasion an expert in the law stood up to test Jesus. "Teacher," he asked, "what must I do to inherit eternal life?" "What is written in the Law?" he replied. "How do you read it?" He answered: " 'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind'; and, 'Love your neighbor as yourself.'" "You have answered correctly," Jesus replied. "Do this and you will live."
Then they quoted John 3:16 (but i'll expand it to 3:10-21) "You are Israel's teacher," said Jesus, "and do you not understand these things? I tell you the truth, we speak of what we know, and we testify to what we have seen, but still you people do not accept our testimony. I have spoken to you of earthly things and you do not believe; how then will you believe if I speak of heavenly things? No one has ever gone into heaven except the one who came from heaven—the Son of Man. Just as Moses lifted up the snake in the desert, so the Son of Man must be lifted up, that everyone who believes in him may have eternal life. For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him. Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because he has not believed in the name of God's one and only Son. This is the verdict: Light has come into the world, but men loved darkness instead of light because their deeds were evil. Everyone who does evil hates the light, and will not come into the light for fear that his deeds will be exposed. But whoever lives by the truth comes into the light, so that it may be seen plainly that what he has done has been done through God."
Ok... granted... I can see the assumed contradiction here. But a person has to read these two passages in different contexts and with a mind of faith. The Luke passage says to "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind." Ok... I can do that! But the Lord, MY GOD, includes the TRINITY. Therefore, Christ, is my God. (He is not the Father, but He is the Son, the Savior!!) Jesus stated that He is the only way to Heaven. John 14:6 "Jesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me."
When Christ stated that we should follow the law of "Loving God and loving our neighbors" he did not say not to believe in Him. Loving God includes believing that He sent His Son, Jesus, to die on the cross for our sins, so we may have eternal life to be with our Father in Heaven and worship Him FOREVER! What is your opinion on this "contradiction controversy?"
I wish I could speak as well or as much as I can write, and have enough time to express what I want to say. But alas, speaking when I am frustrated is a stumbling block for me. I tried to say these things, but I was interrupted and shot down fairly quickly.
The next conundrum that came up, was "If God doesn't let everyone in to Heaven, how can He disown his own children?" The example that was gave was this... If you were a parent, could you end your relationship with your child for doing something wrong? A bunch of people around the room piped in and said that they couldn't and therefore, how could God. I, then opened my big mouth! I said, "Then you mean to tell me, that if your child kicks, punches you, verbally abuses you, and spits on you every single day, you would not tell that child to stop? And if they didn't stop, once you have told them to stop consistently, you wouldn't have to remove yourself from that toxic relationship? You could still love that child, but you don't have to accept their actions."
Oh man, that seemed to set a couple of people off. I had to admit that I couldn't be sure I could do it, but most likely I would be able to. My theory is, you can still love that child, and not accept their actions. They can "repent" (keyword) and say they are sorry and follow in the rules of the house, and then I would have a relationship with them. But if they never repented, I could not say that I could ever have a relationship with them.
The thing is God is so much more than we are. I am sure He does not like the sins we do every single day! That is why He tells us to repent, believe, and then we can have eternal life with Him.
Some in the class did admit that they could not say one way or the other if they would do that with their children, but some in the class said they would never do that. I just didn't know how to respond. What is your response? What would you do? I know that we have no idea what God would do, but what do you think about what you have been taught about God and what He would do?
So, one other topic that was brought up was the fact that there are a lot of people out there that live very "righteous" (not in a Christian way) lives. One example given was, this person has this great friend who is Buddhist. This friend has taught this person more about spirituality than this person has learned in many years of going to church.
I did not have any comment at the time, but I came up with something during church. (I truly was listening, but something the pastor said made me think of a point I wanted to make.) I wrote down my comment on an insert in our bulletin. I said that, I don't care about what other people think and teach on their way to "eternal whatever." Some people may be good, and may do good things, but our works are not what grant us eternal life! Our believe in God, and that God sent Jesus, His son, to die on the cross so we have eternal life, is the basis of OUR/MY faith. If every person has eternal life, what are we here for? Why is there the church? Didn't Christ tell us to "go and make disciples of all nations?" (Matt. 28:19). If everyone is to go to Heaven, then why would have God sent Jesus to earth? If everyone, and anyone can go to Heaven, Jesus' death was in vain.
Needless to say, I am very passionate about this subject! I do believe that God can make exceptions in any case He wants to. But, I do think that we need to follow the WORD OF GOD, and therefore we do not have to count on God making an exception for us. God created us to live our lives in love. That was stated over and over again in this class. I MUST agree with that. But I have to say, I can love, God can love, but we do not have to accept actions for which God has said are evil/bad/wrong.
Which brings me to my next point. (I know this is long, but I need to get this out.) A couple of people in the class asked the question "What is wrong? How can we, since we are not God, know what is wrong?" James brought up the 10 Commandments! These things are WRONG. (This is what Exodus 20:1-17 says)
And God spoke all these words:
"I am the LORD your God, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery.
"You shall have no other gods before me.
"You shall not make for yourself an idol in the form of anything in heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the waters below. You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God, punishing the children for the sin of the fathers to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me, but showing love to a thousand of those who love me and keep my commandments.
"You shall not misuse the name of the LORD your God, for the LORD will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name.
"Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy. Six days you shall labor and do all your work, but the seventh day is a Sabbath to the LORD your God. On it you shall not do any work, neither you, nor your son or daughter, nor your manservant or maidservant, nor your animals, nor the alien within your gates. For in six days the LORD made the heavens and the earth, the sea, and all that is in them, but he rested on the seventh day. Therefore the LORD blessed the Sabbath day and made it holy.
"Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the LORD your God is giving you.
"You shall not murder.
"You shall not commit adultery.
"You shall not steal.
"You shall not give false testimony against your neighbor.
"You shall not covet your neighbor's house. You shall not covet your neighbor's wife, or his manservant or maidservant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor."
I believe that doing those things are wrong. Do you? These are the guides to figure out what is wrong and what is right in God's eyes. Am I correct in that assumption?
Now there are a lot of things that individual churches/denominations have declared wrong, that may not be wrong in other churches/denominations. I think this is where LOVE comes in. I may believe that something someone is doing is wrong, and they may think it is right. We both may have scripture to back up our views. I do not have to agree with that person that they are right, but I do HAVE to love that person! God is the one who judges. I have been called not to judge. (See Matthew 7:1-5) All I can do for the person I disagree with is share my perspective, let them share theirs, listen, love, and pray that God's will is done in my heart and in that persons heart!
We are called to love God and our neighbors. We are also called to do so much more.
I want to ask you, do you believe in Christ? Do you believe God sent His Son, Jesus, to die on the cross for YOU? If you do, I pray that you are preaching and teaching to as many souls as you can reach.
If this is the first time you have heard of Christ, knowing more is easy. Ask God to open your heart and your mind to His word. Ask Christ to come into your heart and seek Him out. Get yourself a Bible and read it. Find a church where you can express your beliefs, and yet be challenged to find the truth in the Word.
I know this took a quirky turn towards the end, but I know there is some reason for this. Some reason for the questions. I am being tested so my faith can become stronger!
By the way, I found all my Bible quotes at http://www.biblegateway.com/. I also found some references in the Bible about Hell and the Devil... Hell (Luke 16:23; Matt 5:22,29, 30; Mark 9:43,45,47; 2Peter 2:4) Devil/Satan (Job [throughout the book]; Zach. 3:1; Luke 4:1-13; Matt 13:39; John 6:70 & 13:27; 2 Thes 2:9; 1 Tim 5:15; Rev. 12:9)
Let me know what you think.... Leave a comment or email me. Thanks.
Friday, April 4, 2008
Wednesday, April 2, 2008
Thursday, March 20, 2008
Young adults will leave church if they’re overlooked, study says
http://www.bpnews.net/bpnews.asp?ID=24629
Here is a snippet then you can go read the rest on that page...
"More young adults are falling away from church and many are finding church
irrelevant to their lives because their needs are not being met, according to
new statistics released by LifeWay Christian Resources.
In 1980, more than 100,000 people age 18 to 34 were baptized in Southern
Baptist churches. But in 2005, that number fell to 60,000, which is drastically
lower considering the United States population has climbed above 300 million.
What’s the problem? Why are young adults not finding church relevant for
their lives? LifeWay Research, a department of LifeWay Christian Resources of
the Southern Baptist Convention, sought to find answers by conducting an eight-month research project which included interviews with unchurched adults, regular church attendees and church leaders from geographical regions throughout the United States. "
