Tuesday, April 29, 2008

Heaven vs. Hell via Oprah... I can't believe this...

This relates to my post below. It is a must see. I cannot support this idea, nor can I support Oprah anymore because of this.

Update on Heaven & Hell vs nothing??

Sorry, this is a bit of rant/rave, but it gets better towards the end. I promise!

Sunday James and I decided to attend Sunday School (well, I told James we were going to attend.) Anyway, they were continuing to talk about the book, If God is Love (I'm going to refer to it as IGL). So, the class started out fine. Somehow they veered off onto the topic of politics, but eventually came back. I just sat and listened to the conversation for the right time to chime in. I am not sure what sparked me to start speaking, but I rebutted someone by saying something along the lines of "how can every person go to heaven if there are no consequences to actions?" James then chimed in and we started to say that belief in Christ is the only way to Heaven.

Oh no, though, that was not good enough! THE BOOK (IGL... not the Bible mind you) says that Christ isn't the ONLY way! WHAT???!!!!???? (it gets better) In the book IGL the author points out that the Bible says that Christ contradicts Himself in Luke and John as to the way of Salvation! WHAT!!!????!??!??!? I asked them to read me the passage in the book again...

Luke 10:25-28 is what they quoted. "On one occasion an expert in the law stood up to test Jesus. "Teacher," he asked, "what must I do to inherit eternal life?" "What is written in the Law?" he replied. "How do you read it?" He answered: " 'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind'; and, 'Love your neighbor as yourself.'" "You have answered correctly," Jesus replied. "Do this and you will live."

Then they quoted John 3:16 (but i'll expand it to 3:10-21) "You are Israel's teacher," said Jesus, "and do you not understand these things? I tell you the truth, we speak of what we know, and we testify to what we have seen, but still you people do not accept our testimony. I have spoken to you of earthly things and you do not believe; how then will you believe if I speak of heavenly things? No one has ever gone into heaven except the one who came from heaven—the Son of Man. Just as Moses lifted up the snake in the desert, so the Son of Man must be lifted up, that everyone who believes in him may have eternal life. For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him. Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because he has not believed in the name of God's one and only Son. This is the verdict: Light has come into the world, but men loved darkness instead of light because their deeds were evil. Everyone who does evil hates the light, and will not come into the light for fear that his deeds will be exposed. But whoever lives by the truth comes into the light, so that it may be seen plainly that what he has done has been done through God."

Ok... granted... I can see the assumed contradiction here. But a person has to read these two passages in different contexts and with a mind of faith. The Luke passage says to "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind." Ok... I can do that! But the Lord, MY GOD, includes the TRINITY. Therefore, Christ, is my God. (He is not the Father, but He is the Son, the Savior!!) Jesus stated that He is the only way to Heaven. John 14:6 "Jesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me."

When Christ stated that we should follow the law of "Loving God and loving our neighbors" he did not say not to believe in Him. Loving God includes believing that He sent His Son, Jesus, to die on the cross for our sins, so we may have eternal life to be with our Father in Heaven and worship Him FOREVER! What is your opinion on this "contradiction controversy?"

I wish I could speak as well or as much as I can write, and have enough time to express what I want to say. But alas, speaking when I am frustrated is a stumbling block for me. I tried to say these things, but I was interrupted and shot down fairly quickly.

The next conundrum that came up, was "If God doesn't let everyone in to Heaven, how can He disown his own children?" The example that was gave was this... If you were a parent, could you end your relationship with your child for doing something wrong? A bunch of people around the room piped in and said that they couldn't and therefore, how could God. I, then opened my big mouth! I said, "Then you mean to tell me, that if your child kicks, punches you, verbally abuses you, and spits on you every single day, you would not tell that child to stop? And if they didn't stop, once you have told them to stop consistently, you wouldn't have to remove yourself from that toxic relationship? You could still love that child, but you don't have to accept their actions."

Oh man, that seemed to set a couple of people off. I had to admit that I couldn't be sure I could do it, but most likely I would be able to. My theory is, you can still love that child, and not accept their actions. They can "repent" (keyword) and say they are sorry and follow in the rules of the house, and then I would have a relationship with them. But if they never repented, I could not say that I could ever have a relationship with them.

The thing is God is so much more than we are. I am sure He does not like the sins we do every single day! That is why He tells us to repent, believe, and then we can have eternal life with Him.
Some in the class did admit that they could not say one way or the other if they would do that with their children, but some in the class said they would never do that. I just didn't know how to respond. What is your response? What would you do? I know that we have no idea what God would do, but what do you think about what you have been taught about God and what He would do?

So, one other topic that was brought up was the fact that there are a lot of people out there that live very "righteous" (not in a Christian way) lives. One example given was, this person has this great friend who is Buddhist. This friend has taught this person more about spirituality than this person has learned in many years of going to church.

I did not have any comment at the time, but I came up with something during church. (I truly was listening, but something the pastor said made me think of a point I wanted to make.) I wrote down my comment on an insert in our bulletin. I said that, I don't care about what other people think and teach on their way to "eternal whatever." Some people may be good, and may do good things, but our works are not what grant us eternal life! Our believe in God, and that God sent Jesus, His son, to die on the cross so we have eternal life, is the basis of OUR/MY faith. If every person has eternal life, what are we here for? Why is there the church? Didn't Christ tell us to "go and make disciples of all nations?" (Matt. 28:19). If everyone is to go to Heaven, then why would have God sent Jesus to earth? If everyone, and anyone can go to Heaven, Jesus' death was in vain.

Needless to say, I am very passionate about this subject! I do believe that God can make exceptions in any case He wants to. But, I do think that we need to follow the WORD OF GOD, and therefore we do not have to count on God making an exception for us. God created us to live our lives in love. That was stated over and over again in this class. I MUST agree with that. But I have to say, I can love, God can love, but we do not have to accept actions for which God has said are evil/bad/wrong.

Which brings me to my next point. (I know this is long, but I need to get this out.) A couple of people in the class asked the question "What is wrong? How can we, since we are not God, know what is wrong?" James brought up the 10 Commandments! These things are WRONG. (This is what Exodus 20:1-17 says)
And God spoke all these words:
"I am the LORD your God, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery.
"You shall have no other gods before me.
"You shall not make for yourself an idol in the form of anything in heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the waters below. You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God, punishing the children for the sin of the fathers to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me, but showing love to a thousand of those who love me and keep my commandments.
"You shall not misuse the name of the LORD your God, for the LORD will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name.
"Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy. Six days you shall labor and do all your work, but the seventh day is a Sabbath to the LORD your God. On it you shall not do any work, neither you, nor your son or daughter, nor your manservant or maidservant, nor your animals, nor the alien within your gates. For in six days the LORD made the heavens and the earth, the sea, and all that is in them, but he rested on the seventh day. Therefore the LORD blessed the Sabbath day and made it holy.
"Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the LORD your God is giving you.
"You shall not murder.
"You shall not commit adultery.
"You shall not steal.
"You shall not give false testimony against your neighbor.
"You shall not covet your neighbor's house. You shall not covet your neighbor's wife, or his manservant or maidservant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor."

I believe that doing those things are wrong. Do you? These are the guides to figure out what is wrong and what is right in God's eyes. Am I correct in that assumption?

Now there are a lot of things that individual churches/denominations have declared wrong, that may not be wrong in other churches/denominations. I think this is where LOVE comes in. I may believe that something someone is doing is wrong, and they may think it is right. We both may have scripture to back up our views. I do not have to agree with that person that they are right, but I do HAVE to love that person! God is the one who judges. I have been called not to judge. (See Matthew 7:1-5) All I can do for the person I disagree with is share my perspective, let them share theirs, listen, love, and pray that God's will is done in my heart and in that persons heart!

We are called to love God and our neighbors. We are also called to do so much more.

I want to ask you, do you believe in Christ? Do you believe God sent His Son, Jesus, to die on the cross for YOU? If you do, I pray that you are preaching and teaching to as many souls as you can reach.

If this is the first time you have heard of Christ, knowing more is easy. Ask God to open your heart and your mind to His word. Ask Christ to come into your heart and seek Him out. Get yourself a Bible and read it. Find a church where you can express your beliefs, and yet be challenged to find the truth in the Word.

I know this took a quirky turn towards the end, but I know there is some reason for this. Some reason for the questions. I am being tested so my faith can become stronger!

By the way, I found all my Bible quotes at http://www.biblegateway.com/. I also found some references in the Bible about Hell and the Devil... Hell (Luke 16:23; Matt 5:22,29, 30; Mark 9:43,45,47; 2Peter 2:4) Devil/Satan (Job [throughout the book]; Zach. 3:1; Luke 4:1-13; Matt 13:39; John 6:70 & 13:27; 2 Thes 2:9; 1 Tim 5:15; Rev. 12:9)

Let me know what you think.... Leave a comment or email me. Thanks.


Birthday pics...

My parents came down this past weekend to help me celebrate my b-day. Mom made me an amazing strawberry cake (my second, since my aunt Kristi made me one too (also amazing) while we were in Sioux Falls). Anyway, here is a picture of me with my cake, and the flowers below are the flowers my boss got me today. They are very pretty! (I thought I would try an artistic way of photography with the last pic. Let me know what you think.)

The Lord's Prayer

This is soooooo cute! It is a must watch! I hope my children will be able to do this at this age (she is 2!).

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

Food Journal 4.22.08

Here is my food journal for yesterday.


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Breakfast
124 ozStarbucks Java Chip Frapacinno3007453305563710
3007453305563710
Lunch
1cupRice, white, medium-grain, cooked242000053104
11Sesame Chicken34092206504921515
2Serving - 19 GLIPTON - ICED TEA MIX - LEMON SUGAR SWEETENED 53 OZ CANISTER1400000360360
1cup shreddedLettuce, cos or romaine, raw800042111
11.5 oz Panda Express® - Sweet & Sour Sauce80000135190171
810922078915946921
Dinner
2cup shreddedLettuce, cos or romaine, raw1600083211
12 TbspHidden Valley Spicy Ranch150162103202010
21 slice 1/12 pizza 118g Papa Murphy's Pizza® - Papa's Pepperoni Pizza, Family-size - three cheeses topped with pepperoni6203014601300584232
7864616701628636433
Snack
224 nutsBlue Diamond Almonds - 1 lb bag32028200126212
32028200126212
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Target
Balance
2216
1400
816
90
50
40
24
16
8
95
250
155
2747
1800
947
289
200
89
22
25
3
112
40
72
76
50
26
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Tuesday, April 22, 2008

Food Journal for 4.15 & 16

Here are my food journals for the 15th and 16th. I didn't keep track of my food while I was in Sioux Falls and I paid for it. I gained 4 pounds over the weekend. Well, part of it was because I was not eating very balanced meals and therefore was not very balanced in other things (if you get my drift). But I have started my journals back up and will make sure to keep track. Thanks for your help with this!

April 16, 2008 (below)


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Breakfast
124 ozStarbucks Java Chip Frapacinno3007453305563710
3007453305563710
Lunch
1Serving - 290 GSTOUFFER'S LEAN CUISINE EVERYDAY FAVORITES - ROASTED POTATOES - BROCCOLI & CHEESE SAUCE 10.25 OZ BOX2405420690375811
2405420690375811
Dinner
11 stromboliOld Chicago Italian Sausage Stromboli10503510706002031532
10503510706002031532
Snack
224 nutsBlue Diamond Almonds - 1 lb bag32028200126212
32028200126212
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Target
Balance
1910
1400
510
75
50
25
20
16
4
95
250
155
1620
1800
180
124
200
76
20
25
5
62
40
22
65
50
15
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April 15, 2008 (below)


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Breakfast
31 donut Dunkin' Donuts® - Donut, Glazed5402450750750189
5402450750750189
Lunch
124 nutsBlue Diamond Almonds - 1 lb bag160141006316
160141006316
Dinner
11 big salad4LeafChopped Spicy Salad6644310159613146658
1Serving - 138 GNABISCO OREO - THIN CRISPS - 100 CALORIE PACKS 6 CT 4.86 OZ BOX10020017020191
76445101597833471559
Snack
124 nutsBlue Diamond Almonds - 1 lb bag160141006316
38 fl oz 240 mL Pepsi® - Pepsi - cola drink30000075810810
460141075873826
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Totals
Target
Balance
1924
1400
524
97
50
47
17
16
1
159
250
91
1608
1800
192
202
200
2
13
25
12
116
40
76
80
50
30
CalFatSatChlSodCrbFibSugPro
Activity
0.5hour(s)home activities - cleaning, heavy or major (e.g. wash car, wash windows, clean garage), vigorous effor-174
Totals-174

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Heaven & Hell... vs nothing??

So, my Sunday school class is doing a study on a book, that I can't remember the name of. Obviously I am not taking part very much. We haven't been but twice and I have not bought the book. Anyway, one Sunday morning they brought up the topic of Heaven and Hell.

I guess it was just by the way I was raised, but I have never questioned the fact that there is a Heaven and there is a Hell... with Satan! However, in part of this book, the author(I think), a pastor, stated that he does not believe in Hell or Satan. That struck me as very odd. How can that be? If there is no Hell and no Satan, what is the evil in this world? What keeps people from just doing whatever they want because they don't have to worry about the fires of Hell?

I know that the "lake of fire" is mentioned in Revelations. Satan tempted Christ. How can a person who is theologically trained on the Bible say that there is no Hell or Satan. (Also, our church does not sing any verses in any hymns or praise songs that make any mention of Satan, the devil, or Hell.)

To go along with this, the author (or the mentioned pastor) said that he believes that Christianity is not the "only" way to Heaven. (The whole premise of the book is God is Love... in fact that might be the title.) There were many in the class that believe this too, along with the no Hell/Satan thing. It is a very, very "progressive" or liberal class and I just cannot wrap my head around some of the things they talk about.

I am finding this somewhat frustrating. Can you help me with this? Let me know where there are mentioned in the Bible these topics: Satan, Hell, lake of fire, death (in relation to hell or something like that), and anything else that might be of relevance here. Also, let me know what your church's stance on this is. I'm just curious as to your opinions. Thanks.

Baby names for the triplets...

Hey, you should go to my sisters blog- Nebelsick Triplets - and let her know what you think the babies should be named! I have put my opinion over there. Just go... do it!

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Food Journal 4.10/11/12/13/14

Sorry, I have been a little lax in posting... here are my last food journals. I forgot to fill out 4.10 and 4.11 so I dont have journals for them. I can't remember what I ate those days! :) I'll try to be better. Thanks for helping me.

4.12



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Breakfast
28 oz (240 ml)Propel Fitness Water 20000700040
13 cakesHostess 100 Calorie Pack - Cinnamon Streusel Coffee Cakes100311013521579
1.5Serving - 12 OZCHERRY COKE - COLA - 12 OZ FRIDGE PACK 12 PK CANS22500053630630
3453110258845749
Lunch
11 packPringles - 100 calorie packs10062011013101
11 salad 16.5 oz Taco Bell® - Taco Salad with Salsa without Shell40022107015103115924
50028127016204416925
Dinner
3cup shreddedLettuce, iceberg (includes crisphead types), raw30000226342
1.51 shot (2 oz)Alchohol - Captain Morgan Spiced Rum180000202000
1.5Serving - 192 MLMAJOR PETERS' - COCKTAIL MIX - STRAWBERRY DAIQUIRI/MARGARITA 1 L GLASS BOTTLE390000451010960
1cup, chopped or dicedChicken, broilers or fryers, breast, meat only, cooked, roasted2315111910400043
12 TbspHidden Valley Spicy Ranch150162103202010
981213129511111310145
Snack
11 package100 Calorie Pack - Lorna Doone Shortbread Cookie Crisps10032012016061
0.425 crackersWhite Cheddar Cheez-it603101127001
2slice, medium (1/4" thick)Tomatoes, red, ripe, raw, year round average700022010
16763023425072
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Balance
1993
1400
593
58
50
8
19
16
3
209
250
41
2623
1800
823
264
200
64
24
25
1
191
40
151
81
50
31
CalFatSatChlSodCrbFibSugPro
Activity
1hour(s)walking - walking the dog-347
Totals-347

4.13




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Breakfast
1Serving - 138 GNABISCO OREO - THIN CRISPS - 100 CALORIE PACKS 6 CT 4.86 OZ BOX10020017020191
13 cakesHostess 100 Calorie Pack - Cinnamon Streusel Coffee Cakes100311013521579
0.5fruit (2-7/8" dia)Oranges, raw, navels3400019261
23451103065082211
Lunch
3Serving - 19 GLIPTON - ICED TEA MIX - LEMON SUGAR SWEETENED 53 OZ CANISTER2100000540540
0.851 small servingNoodles & Co - Wisconsin Mac & Cheese5952913111850483036
805291311185010235436
Dinner
12 cupsFresh Express20000154221
11 bag100 calorie pack Mini Fudge Stripes1004307016091
0.3large (8-1/4" long)Cucumber, peeled, raw1000022110
12 TbspHidden Valley Spicy Ranch150162103202010
28020510407243132
Snack
125 crackersWhite Cheddar Cheez-it15082028018002
11 packPringles - 100 calorie packs10062011013101
0.525 crackersWhite Cheddar Cheez-it754101409001
325185053040104
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Totals
Target
Balance
1644
1400
244
72
50
22
24
16
8
131
250
119
2093
1800
293
216
200
16
15
25
10
89
40
49
53
50
3
CalFatSatChlSodCrbFibSugPro
Activity
0.25hour(s)walking - walking, 3.0 mph, level, moderate pace, firm surface-95
Totals-95

4.14




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Breakfast
13 cakesHostess 100 Calorie Pack - Cinnamon Streusel Coffee Cakes100311013521579
28 ozCrystal Clear - Black Cherry0000300000
100311016521579
Lunch
28 ozCrystal Clear - Black Cherry0000300000
12 cookies 2 oz 56.7g Mars® - Twix Cookie Bars, Caramel flavor - candy bar2801455115371273
11 servingChipotle - 3 Barbacoa soft tacos5552411851482433338
1.2512 ozIzze Sparkling Grapefruit15000019360350
985381690164611646541
Dinner
0.52 TbspHidden Valley Spicy Ranch758151601010
1cup choppedBroccoli, raw31000306223
2ozBread, whole-wheat, commercially prepared14020026823437
11/4 cup 1 oz 27g Kraft® - Sharp Cheddar Cheese - natural, shredded11096251700007
15 slicesKroger Deli Thin Sliced Turkey5010256302019
124 ozStarbucks Java Chip Frapacinno3007453305563710
12 cupsFresh Express20000154221
726271160160391144637
Snack
11 bar 90g Starbucks Coffee® - Caramel Apple Bar31016840150382213
31016840150382213
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Target
Balance
2121
1400
721
84
50
34
36
16
20
200
250
50
3564
1800
1764
266
200
66
25
25
0
139
40
99
90
50
40
CalFatSatChlSodCrbFibSugPro
Activity
1hour(s)home activities - non-food shopping, standing or walking-267
Totals-267